Living in the Time of Corona

A boomer in the time of Corona

Day 115

Good evening my Corona friends and guess what! She’s back…………………… Yes it has been fifteen days since my final post and I did take the opportunity to take a vacation with my incredible, beautiful, and wonderful, children and grandkids, and yes I am including my daughter-in-law and son-in-law in this equation.  Let me just say for the record after spending time with them isolated on a small island in Maine, you learn things at the dinner table because there are no distractions and we had a lot of meaningful conversations.  One is that the younger generation really hates when the old people use ….. at the end of a sentence, really bugs them and I use it all the time. Which led to more conversations about my emails, techie brought up the point that he doesn’t believe I read what I am sending and case in point he shared one I had just sent to my team back at work, that I agreed the average layperson would probably not know what I am saying but thankfully I have the incredible Stephanie who replied no worries I speak Peganese.  They especially got a kick out of soibought , but like I said I got my Stephanie, and my techie, it takes a village and in my case maybe a large metropolitan area.  I put our dinners in a box on hold and yes we had to wing it, but we made it and had a few dinners out. I am telling you not digging the Vodka pours in the restaurants, I really didn’t think my hand was that heavy but I guess it is and will have to get out my flask. It was kind of a last-minute opportunity that it all came together and we got to be on an almost deserted island together in Maine. We had planned to join my daughter and crew and lo and behold Alana freed up the family to work from home in Maine. I speak for all mothers of sons who enter a different universe when they get married, we can no longer have any control of what is happening it is I the power of the woman so you best get on or you are screwed. Luckily in my case, my daughter-in-law is so very awesome, sucking up big time here, but I can’t disagree with the premise. Women should rule and it is something how quickly men acquiesce to their wives, Oh I must check with my wife before making any plans, you know the drill. Let’s face it women just know how to get shit done, so why aren’t we running the country?   I don’t want to get on any rants because it was ten days without my beloved cable news programs, and yes they are all bullshit the lefties love theirs, and the other crazies love theirs, but they are just wrong.

Life on an Island in Maine with no cars, no stores, and weak Wi-Fi can be wonderful and challenging at the same time.  First I don’t mean this in a bad way and I am sure I am insulting someone, so may lose my return privilege, but it can be kind of inbred. Not a lot of people on the island so when you run into someone they say we are at the Smith cottage or we are staying at the McCrery house.  You really are in tune with nature, picking blueberries, finding crabs, and digging for clams, even sometimes dipping into the frigid water for a swim.  Most of these things I thoroughly enjoy in my time there and even can suffer without air conditioning, and mosquitoes, but Dam IT why can’t these people invest in a decent coffee machine. I swear to God this thing was straight out of the eighties with a thermos coffee pot with not barely enough for four cups and an antique grinder that was working overtime. Well there you go the only suffering  I had to do on my vacation was suffer weak coffee and maybe some night sweats, but we were not near people, and most time we could be mask free to give kisses and hugs to my beautiful grandkids.  The plan is to go back at the end of the summer and I hope I am invited back, I know Techie is because they all like him way better than me, so fingers crossed.  Back to work and back to preparing meals for my roommate so he will keep me a while longer, I made dinner tonight and not even out of a box, and last night as well. I am listening now to a mix of best songs of the eighties that Techie made for a party, not sure of the occasion but right now it is Tina Turner and I need a dance partner.

Oh, one last thing before I sign off on July 3rd, we were lucky enough to be a part of a small intimate wedding of friends that felt the need to tie the knot and it was very special. Our friend Howie lost his wife to cancer several years ago and we had met them both through sailing. I have a special place in my heart for this man because he just loved his wife so much, even in death she was so loved and he was lucky enough to find a partner who understood that love and could be the next love, Lisa is pretty awesome.  Techie and I plan to take them on a buddymoon in a few weeks sailing, so beautiful things are happening during these crazy times we can always find love and humanity.

Here’s a clue it is hiding under that giant bottle Ketel One.

Happy to be alive ……………………………………………………

Just sayin………………………………………………………………………………………..

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1 Comment

  1. Judy

    Love that everyone was together in Maine with no TV , no distractions – very different than life in city running a retail business during a pandemic. Probably would take a month or so to really “relax”. Then you could take up a hobby, painting, writing your memoir, meditating – it is a whole different world.

    Glad Howie and Lisa married – good to know commitment happens at any age

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